Friends

Last night I had the pleasure of talking with a good friend, Richard. Friends come in different faces, if you will, bringing different talents, strengths, weaknesses, backgrounds to the table. Some we enjoy for their sense of fun and adventure, others for their trustworthiness and constancy, yet others just love us regardless of our imperfections and are always there for us. Many transverse these definitions, perhaps combining several definitions. In rare cases, one friend will encompass all definitions, that complete friend. I value many friendships that entail a variety of these and other characteristics.

In Richard, I find a friend who has the unique ability to listen, non judgmentally, then render his opinion knowing it will be taken exactly in the same way. His ideas are always well thought out, articulately expressed with an intellectual understanding that is a refreshing change from the emotionally charged rhetoric we often hear. I value his friendship and the few times we have to discuss a variety of ideas, including politics, religion, business and general philosophy. Last night we talked about a variety of things ranging from Proposition 8 to who we voted for in the recent election and why. Richard and I don't always agree, but we disagree agreeably.

Now, since I have a blog, and Richard doesn't, I get the final word. That is, unless Richard has comments to this entry, then I guess he'll get the last word. But, then I'll re-post, thus grabbing the high ground and declaring victory!!! :)

After further thought, I've decided not to sully this, otherwise perfect post, with further discussion of a political nature. I'll save that for the next post where I'll explain why I voted the way I did. Of course, generally speaking, it is a moot subject at this juncture to talk about who I voted for since all fates have been sealed and the President Elect is Obama, and how I, or anyone else for that matter, voted is of little concern now. Save it for 2012. But, since I have a blog and feel compelled to write something on it, I just can't help myself. So, dear reader, you'll have to wait until next time to find out who I voted for and why.

I'll finish this post by continuing what I started - friends. I'm grateful for good friends that I know I can talk to, express my feelings and thoughts, and know they won't judge, criticize or condemn just because we don't agree. In addition, it is good to hear other's ideas, to learn from and to inculcate them into our thinking. Richard gave me a lot to think about, especially in the area of what are rights under the Constitution and what aren't. I'm not sure I've completely changed my mind, but I do have additional food for thought, something to ponder a bit more, and a different perspective. Friends are a great blessing in our lives. Thanks, Richard.